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You’ve Survived the Storm.

Now It’s Time to Rebuild Your Life.

Feeling stuck, anxious, or weighed down by past pain?


If you’ve experienced abuse, trauma, or deep loss, you are not alone. Support, understanding, and hope are available here.
 

At Empower Beyond Coaching, every client works with the Unbreakable Mindset Method® to break through blocks, release limiting beliefs, and step boldly into their full potential. You can rebuild, restore, and thrive, one step at a time.
 

Start your journey today

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Welcome To

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Hi

I’m Raj Holness, a certified coach, public speaker, author, and minister. I specialise in mindset and trauma-informed coaching, helping you break free from the ways past abuse or trauma shapes your thoughts, emotions, and behaviours.
 

As a survivor of abuse (physical, emotional, sexual, financial, and spiritual), as well as attempted murder, depression, and multiple suicide attempts, I understand the fear, shame, and hopelessness it can bring.
 

With years of experience, I’ve guided countless individuals to overcome abuse, trauma, anxieties, and mindset blocks, reclaim their freedom, and discover lasting happiness.

Raj x
Mindset Coach
ACCPH senior fellow member

You’ve survived. Now it’s time to thrive

who i work with?

I work with people who are ready to break free from the pain of their past and step into a confident, hope-filled future.

  • Survivors of domestic or spiritual abuse who want to feel safe again
     

  • People living with the weight of trauma and loss who are ready for change
     

  • Men and women who want to rebuild their confidence and create a life they love

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free assessment

Discover Your Personal Triggers

The first step to reclaiming your life is understanding what holds you back. Our Trigger Finder Assessment helps you uncover your personal emotional triggers, identify patterns affecting your decisions and relationships, and gain clarity on areas that need attention.
 

Take the first step towards transformation, complete the assessment and book your free 30 minute consultation to explore your results and start creating the life you envision.

my approach

Support That Meets You Where You Are

Healing after abuse or trauma is not a one-size-fits-all journey. That’s why my approach combines compassion, lived experience, and practical healing strategies that meet you where you are.
 

This is not about quick fixes. Instead of handing you tools and sending you on your way, I walk with you through the process so you can experience real and lasting transformation.


Instead of just giving you tools, I walk with you through the process so you can experience lasting transformation.

Three Core Outcomes:
 

  • Rebuild Your Confidence – Step into each day with strength and self-belief
     

  • Release the Past – Free yourself from the weight of what happened
     

  • Rewrite Your Future – Create a life filled with safety, joy, and purpose

Start Your Healing Journey Today

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Proof of Transformation - testimonials

You’re Not Alone. Others Have Walked This Path Too

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Before working with Raj, I felt trapped in fear. Now I have hope and a plan for my future.

Anon.

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Raj understood me in a way no one else did. She’s walked my journey and supported me even when I was struggling.

S.K

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I carried deep childhood trauma and my faith had taken a major hit.

In just one breakthrough session with Raj, I gained clarity and hope, I hadn’t felt in years. It was so powerful that I’ve now committed to 12 coaching sessions. I’m scared, but more than that, I’m excited for the journey ahead.

Anon.

Speaking Engagements

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Inspiring Audiences Through Speaking

In addition to coaching, I speak at churches, conferences, workshops, and corporate events. My talks combine personal experience, spiritual insight, and practical strategies to help audiences:

  • Overcome adversity

  • Build resilience

  • Step into their purpose

Book Raj to Speak at Your Event

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About raj

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Turning Struggle Into Strength

I know what it means to fight for your life, literally. I survived years of abuse, including attempted murder, and overcame the deep scars of trauma and spiritual manipulation.

My own healing journey taught me that freedom is possible. Now I dedicate my life to helping others experience it too, through coaching, speaking, and ministry.

Your Healing or Event Journey Starts Here

Whether you’re seeking personalised coaching or a transformative speaking experience,
let’s take the first step together.

Reclaim your life, rebuild confidence, and step into a future of strength and purpose. I support survivors of abuse and trauma to heal, grow, and rediscover themselves.
Book your
free 30 minute consultation today and take the first step towards your journey of transformation.

Bring hope, inspiration, and practical guidance to your church, conference, workshop, or retreat. I share real-life stories of resilience and faith to empower audiences and spark lasting change.

Other Ways We Can Inspire and Support You

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Books & Journals

My books, including Uncovering Truths, The Only Arranged Marriage, and Beauty for Your Ashes Journal, share powerful stories of survival, healing, and transformation.

Whether you seek inspiration, guidance, or a space for reflection, these resources offer hope and empowerment.

handmade gifts

Handmade By Yours Truly features a collection of handcrafted, bespoke products designed to inspire, encourage, and uplift. Each item is made with love, care, and attention to detail, perfect for personal use or as a thoughtful gift.

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Bring your ideas to life

Through Holness Creatives, I provide professional design, publishing, and creative solutions to help you bring your vision to life and share your story in a meaningful way.

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