Speaking & keynotes

Real conversations.
Lived experience.
Lasting impact.

Honest, trauma-informed talks that inform, challenge, and strengthen, without shock tactics or sensationalism.

Raj Holness, speaker

I speak to inform, challenge, and strengthen. Every talk is grounded, trauma-informed, and shaped around the needs of your audience.

A speaker you can trust with your audience

Experience, credibility,
and lived understanding


I am a TEDx speaker, published author, ordained minister, and certified mindset and trauma-informed coach, with over two decades of experience speaking across churches, conferences, corporate organisations, and national platforms.

I have spoken at the House of Lords and TEDx Birmingham City University, and was invited to 10 Downing Street through my advocacy work for abused women. I have been featured on ITV News, TBN UK, BBC Radio WM, Premier Christian Radio, and in multiple national publications.

My speaking draws from lived experience of abuse, forced marriage, trauma, spiritual harm, and rebuilding. I speak with honesty, sensitivity, and authority, creating carefully held conversations where difficult subjects can be explored with clear boundaries, appropriate care, and relevant signposting.

Raj Holness portrait
Grounded and prepared
Raj Holness portrait
Honest, never sensational

Watch Raj speak

See the work in the room

A few moments from talks and interviews, so you can get a sense of the tone before you enquire.

Ways to book

Two main ways
to bring Raj in

Most events begin with one of these. Each is tailored to your audience and aims, and the format cards further down show other ways to involve me.

Keynote speaking

45 to 60 minutes · Online or in person · Optional Q&A


A tailored keynote that brings together lived experience, professional insight, and practical understanding. Suitable for conferences, awareness events, staff events, universities, churches, and women's gatherings.

Enquire about a keynote

Lived experience session

90 minutes · Story, structured Q&A, and practical application


For organisations and teams who want to move beyond generic awareness and understand how abuse and trauma can affect behaviour, disclosure, decision-making, and trust.

Enquire about a session

Fees depend on format, location, and audience, and are discussed once an enquiry is received.

Who I speak to

Invited to speak across
a range of settings

  • Churches and faith-based organisations
  • Conferences and retreats
  • Women's events
  • Educational settings
  • Community organisations
  • Professional and corporate environments
  • National advocacy and policy events
  • Media and broadcast settings

Each engagement is tailored to the audience, context, and purpose of the event. I have a particular depth of experience speaking within faith communities, and understand the unique sensitivities, opportunities, and responsibilities that come with those settings.

Raj Holness speaking on stage with a microphone
Raj Holness on stage

Speaking topics & themes

Talks drawn from lived experience,
professional practice, and faith

  • Abuse, coercive control, and hidden harm
  • Spiritual abuse and misuse of power
  • Identity, self-worth, and boundaries
  • Recovery, resilience, and rebuilding life
  • Forgiveness, truth, and discernment
  • Mindset, inner strength, and self-leadership
  • Faith, suffering, and spiritual resilience
  • Forced marriage and honour-based abuse
  • Surviving suicidal distress, traumatic loss, and finding a way through

Talks can be adapted for awareness, education, encouragement, or ministry contexts.

Book Raj to speak

Speaking formats

Available for a range of formats

Each format is discussed in advance to ensure alignment with the aims of your event.

Keynote talks

A powerful, grounded keynote shaped around your audience and theme.

Workshops & seminars

Interactive sessions that go deeper, with space for learning and reflection.

Speaker-led and reflective. For skills-based staff development, see Trauma-Informed Training.

Panel discussions

Honest, considered contributions to panels and Q&A conversations.

Women's retreats

Encouraging, restorative sessions for women's retreat settings.

Ministry & teaching

Faith-based teaching and ministry sessions, delivered with care.

Media & broadcast

Television, radio and podcast contributions on sensitive subjects.

What audiences can expect

Handled with care,
from first word to last

Clear and grounded

Communication that stays honest, calm, and easy to follow.

Sensitively handled

Difficult subjects approached with care and clear boundaries.

Trauma-informed

Delivery shaped by real understanding of how trauma works.

Room to reflect

Space to take things in, without pressure or a hard sell.

Honest, not sensational

Insight drawn from experience, never shock for its own sake.

Respectful of faith

Belief and faith contexts held with genuine respect.

Audiences are given room to reflect, with honesty and care.

Included with your booking

More than an hour on a stage

Every talk is shaped around your event rather than taken off a shelf. I speak to the theme or brief you give me, and we agree the detail together beforehand, so nothing is left to chance.

A conversation first

We talk before the day to understand your audience and what you want the session to achieve.

A tailored talk

Content shaped to your theme, context, and objectives, never a generic script.

Care and signposting

Agreed content notes and appropriate support signposting, so difficult subjects are approached responsibly, with clear boundaries and care.

Materials for your team

A short biography, photographs, and session description for your programme and promotion.

Optional Q&A

A sensitively held question and answer session, if it suits your event.

Follow-up resources

A list of resources for your audience afterwards, where it would help.

Selected platforms, organisations and media

Organisations I've worked with
and been recognised by

TEDx ITV News TBN UK BBC Radio WM Premier Christian Radio Revelation TV UCB Birmingham Live Department for Work and Pensions Jobcentre Plus West Midlands Police Birmingham City Council Birmingham Children's Trust National Commission on Forced Marriage Universal Peace Federation Love Brum The National Lottery Community Fund HSBC Santander

Speaking impact

What audiences say

That was fire. Thank you so much for sharing your story, Raj, and for highlighting the importance of talking about domestic violence.

Anonymous · TEDx audience

Raj's talk was powerful, raw, and unforgettable. She held the room in silence, then moved us to hope.

Anonymous · Conference

When Raj speaks, she doesn't just inspire. She shifts something inside you.

Anonymous · Church event

Shared with permission. Names withheld to protect privacy.

Raj Holness being interviewed on TBN UK

Booking information

How booking works


Speaking engagements are booked via enquiry, so each request can be considered properly and matched to the right talk and format.

Fees vary depending on event type, duration, location, and travel requirements. These details are discussed once an enquiry is received.

Raj is available for UK and international engagements, and is particularly experienced in faith conference settings across diverse cultural communities.

Ready to book Raj for your event?

Bring this conversation
to your audience

Whether you are planning a keynote, a workshop, a panel discussion, or a ministry session, I would be honoured to speak at your event. Every enquiry is reviewed personally to ensure the right fit for your audience and the conversation you want to create.

Your details are used only to respond to your enquiry.